Opt-in at the rules screening
Members agree to receive DMs and email updates as they accept your server rules. No opt-in, no message, ever.
Try the welcome flow
Consent first, then one message. Members opt in inside your Discord rules screening, and BotLunar's Discord welcome message bot sends exactly one DM when they join, asking for their email. Every opt-in is stored with its source and timestamp.
1Opt-in happens in your rules screening
What happens when they join
@kestrel accepted your rules screening
Opt-in recorded, source: rules screening
Member joins the server
Already opted in, so one DM is allowed
One welcome DM sent, asking for their email
Welcome in! Want drop alerts by email too? Add your ad...
Email captured
k•••••@mail.com
Consent record stored
Source: rules screening, 2026-09-23 14:02:11 UTC
One DM. Only to members who opted in at the door.
Why welcome messages on BotLunar
Members agree before they are ever messaged, and the single DM they get turns that agreement into an email address.
Members agree to receive DMs and email updates as they accept your server rules. No opt-in, no message, ever.
When an opted-in member joins, BotLunar sends a single welcome DM. No drip, no follow-up chain, no nagging.
That one DM has one job: turn a new member into an email subscriber you can reach anywhere.
Want drop alerts by email too? Totally optional.
Saved with consent
Screening, join, DM, email. Each step is logged so you can always see what happened.
Every consent record keeps where it came from and exactly when, so you can prove it later.
A wave of new members? Welcome DMs go out at the same steady per bot pace as every campaign, so a spike queues rather than floods.
How it works
Include a clear line asking new members to agree to DMs and email updates before they can join.
Keep it short and make the email ask obvious. Preview it exactly as members will see it.
From then on, every member who opts in at the door gets that single DM when they join.
Welcome messages questions
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Through your Discord rules screening. You add a line asking new members to agree to receive DMs and email updates, and they accept it before they can take part in the server. Members who do not agree are never messaged.
Exactly one. Its purpose is to ask for their email address. There is no follow-up sequence and no reminders.
The consent record itself, its source, which is the rules screening, and the timestamp. If they give an email, that is stored with the same record.
No. The flow only runs for members who opt in at the rules screening after it is live. Reach existing opted-in members with a campaign instead.
Discord rejects the DM and BotLunar records it honestly. Nothing is retried in a way that breaks the rules.
Connect your server and switch on your welcome flow today.